Ideas
Ideas are concepts of reality that haven't been realized yet. There are two different ways of categorizing ideas. Either (a) the idea is worthy of being attempted in real life, or (b) the idea is stupid. Now, this is probably an over-simplification, but I'm not trying to define things using formal mathematics or anything, so I reserve the right to take that liberty. If you disagree with my idea about ideas, feel encouraged to file it under the "(b) stupid idea" category which I just propsed. I won't be offended.
There are subsections of (a) and (b) that are worth mentioning.
With (a) there is the possibility that, upon attempting to bring an idea to fruition you can fail or succeed. Also, there is the possibility of not attempting to realize a particular idea inspite of its merits. For example, two competing ideas are to vacation in the Caribbean or in Italy. Both of these places are likely to be considered good ideas for most people but oftentimes you need to pick one or the other.
Take note that there is a fine line between ideas which aren't winners and ideas that are stupid. Debating Italy vs Caribbean is actually more annoying than debating Italy vs Iowa (sorry if this offends anybody from Iowa). There are many reasons (aside from business trips or visiting family) to visit Iowa. At least, I don't know anybody who wouldn't think planning a vacation to Iowa is a dumb idea. In any case, given those two alternatives, it's easier to choose Italy when comparing it to Iowa than when comparing it to the Caribbean. What's my point? I'm not really sure at this stage.
Ahhh... yes. I remember now. The point was that endlessly debating two "good" ideas is worse than having lots of bad ideas. I believe it's called paralysis by analysis. Try to avoid it if you know what's good for you. Also, learn how to identify that visiting Italy in December might be stupid while going to the Caribbean in August is just as dumb. So, there are ways of rationally binning ideas in one of the two categorizes (in this case, based of the time of year).
And the point that I was really driving at... call my ideas stupid when you think they are. I won't be offended because the majority of the things that come from my brain are NOT worthy of bringing to fruition. I won't be offended when you say my ideas are dumb. I know you aren't making any sort of personal attack. You are judging my ideas negatively, not me. I am an adult - I can take it.
And I ask the courtesy of saying your ideas are dumb from time to time. I hope you understand that it isn't a personal attack. Just because I think one or two of your ideas are stupid doesn't mean that i think you are stupid.
So that's the point. Ideas not worthy of realizing are like the part of a brainstorming session that gets dismissed and thrown-away halfway through. No harm, no foul.
Sorry for rambling. I hope some of this made sense and was worthwhile.




